Tuesday, April 27, 2010
லிட்டில் மிஸ் பெர்ஃபெக்ட் !
இந்த தலைப்பு பத்தி எழுதணும்ன்னு ரொம்ப நாளாவே வெறி ! ஆரம்பமே இப்படி இருக்கா :))
எல்லாருக்கும் எல்லா விஷயமுமே நேர்த்தியா செய்யணும்ன்னு இருக்கும்..இது ஒரு சோஷியல் வியாதி கூட.. யார் சொன்னாங்க எல்லாம் மேட்சிங்கா இருக்கணும்... கலர் கோஆர்டினேட்டடா இருக்கணும்... இப்படி பல விஷயங்கள் எனக்கு ரொம்பவே ஒத்து வராது...
In my opinion being perfect is not about things/arrangements/well manicured nails and wearing matching clothes.
I am not sure who can't agree that If I have to cut my body in half ,both sides wont match. Even though it is your own body parts there is no match.
We agree that all fingers are not the same, if it is it will be really funny to watch some one eat with those same length/size fingers.
When people understand this concept why do they put pressure on others and themselves about being "Little Miss Perfect"
My "ideal" person may be different from your "ideal" person. I dont go on a self sabatoging spree and tell... I dont like my eyes or hair or my body...
No one is made perfect rather every one is perfect in thier own ways. If you compare some actress with you and say "oh I am not like Miss World" . I would say"
Sure dear! You are not " because you are who you are. There will be some one better than you or some one worse than you.
Even this standard varies from person to person or for the same person it varies from time to time.
Your ideals about beauty in your 20s is different from your thoughts about beauty in your 40s.
Can we look a a new born and say the baby is not perfect??
What we feed the babies mentally and physically changes who they turn out to be.
Everything in god's creation is perfect. Take any given day and look at yourself how many times we regret something in us or about us.
I wish I had long hair or I wish I have that prada dress or Jimmy Choos shoes or that dinner set i saw in my neighbors home.
Look at yourself and see .. you dont wish to be you.. You wish to be someone else. Just because we have those materialistic things it wont automatically qualify to enter you in lottery to be in the "perfect" world.
Think of your life as this way...
Oh .. I love my short hair..All I have to do is shower and let it "air"dry
In short I want to say, This is just a beginning... Try and like/love your imperfections. It is scientifically proven that that pressue to be perfect is a major stress factor in life.
Say to yourself "Let my imperfections make me perfect"